An Open Letter To Patrick Carnes, Stefanie Carnes, Robert Weiss, All CSAT Counselors And Sex Addiction 12 Step Advocates
A heartfelt letter written by a member of the Sisterhood: Dear Patrick Carnes, Stefanie Carnes, Robert Weiss, All
You Are Not Alone Any More
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A heartfelt letter written by a member of the Sisterhood: Dear Patrick Carnes, Stefanie Carnes, Robert Weiss, All
The debate of whether Sex Addiction is really an addiction will not be settled soon, especially while expensive
I just received an email from a partner of a sex addict. Her husband was arrested for soliciting
The news coverage of Ray Rice brutally beating his fiancee unconscious has brought back a flood of memories for
We have had some interesting discussions in the Sisterhood forums as to whether or not women can find
Here is a video clip of Patrick Carnes describing the partner’s role in a sex addict’s recovery program.
Here on the Sisterhood we have all acknowledged the narcissistic, self-indulgent behaviors of Sex Addicts. But, there is
When I started my first website almost a decade ago my mission was to offer women who were
I get that question all the time…Is sex addiction really domestic abuse? Here’s what a partner has to
As you know from my previous post I am working on some audio tapes to help you relax
Here are some of the excuses sex addicts say when they are ‘caught with their pants down’. These
Why does a man choose hookers over his family? Why didn’t we see this major flaw in our husbands? Why do we stay and have nervous breakdowns when we find out? Why do therapists push us towards acknowledging our part? Why are we triggered? Why can’t we just walk out the door and never look back? Why do we seek help for them? Why do they blame us? Why do our friends and family want us to just get over it? Why did this man who watched me deliver our daughter/son leave the hospital and seek out a prostitue? And the winner is “why can’t they be helped?”
The Holiday Season is upon us and for Partners of Sex Addicts the stress can become unbearable. Here
I made decisions (mostly bad ones) without facts or reality, decisions that would have been very different if I had been allowed all of the information I deserved and had a right to know.
Although the Sex Addiction gurus, like Carnes and Weiss, claim that any Sex Addict can change and recover
It is time to publicly rate your therapist. Somehow, some way the ‘do no harm’ philosophy has been
In this new weekly series, ‘What Partners Say’ I have gleaned the best of the best wisdom from the private forums of what partners say about sex addiction.
Written by MADISON BLANCAFLOR When you think of domestic abuse, physical or verbal assault are probably the
What to Ask Your Therapist Partners often endure further trauma by therapists who want to call us names
Today 12 step programs are the ‘go to’ gold standard for sex addiction. But, do 12 Step Programs really
NOTE: I wrote this article in 2011. Sadly, things have not changed, in fact, they have gotten worse.