Below are three outstanding videos by Lundy Bancroft. His wisdom about partner healing  can easily be applied to partners who are in a relationship with a sex addict.

Lundy Bancroft is an author, workshop leader, and consultant on domestic abuse and child maltreatment. His work focuses on three areas:

• Training professionals on best practices for intervening with male perpetrators of violence against women, toward the goal of promoting accountability and requiring change.
• Training professionals on the dynamics of emotional injury and recovery in children who are exposed to a man who abuses their mother, to prepare participants to offer the most effective and safe assistance possible to children and their mothers.
• Supporting healing and empowerment for abused women, with an emphasis on advocating for the human rights of mothers and their children.