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   Husband's Sexual Addiction?

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Who Is JoAnn Russell?

In 2004 I discovered my husband had a secret sexual life Read More

Our Position

We reject the idea that sex addiction is an actual disease,  Read More

What We Believe

We Believe that you, the Partner or wife of a sex addict, are of the utmost  Read More

The Support Group

The Sisterhood Support Group is an online 24/7 support group for women. Read More


A series of eBooks for wives and partners of sex addicts. Read more

One On One Coaching

Partners of sex addicts need someone who makes their needs the top priority Read More

Trauma Recovery

About 70% of partners have PTSD. The rest struggle with Read More

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Cave Men And Pharmaceuticals

As if we women don't have enough societal hurdles and hoops to jump through, here we have what appears to be a sensible review of a new book that exposes the greed driven practices of  pharmaceutical companies that want to make women's normalcy and uniqueness an illness so they can sell us pills to

Written by a Sister

Written by a Sister who wishes to remain anonymous... “The heart wants what it wants - or else it does not care.” No, that was not Woody Allen, (although he did quote an obscene version of it as a way to justify running off with his adopted daughter). It was Emily Dickinson, my favorite poet. Sh

He’s A Sex Addict! Should I Stay Or Go?

When I started my first website almost a decade ago my mission was to offer women who were in a relationship with a Sex Addict the information and resources that I did not have when I made my Discovery. Information that would have helped me decide if I should stay or go. I made my decisions without

The 5% Recovery Myth For Sex Addicts

Although the Sex Addiction gurus, like Carnes and Weiss, claim that any Sex Addict can change and recover if they really want to, and some even claim a 100% success rate, those of us who have lived and researched the behaviors that are called Sex Addiction know that is just not possible. Yet even th

Sex Addictions And Brain Changes–Which Came First?

Note: I wrote this in 2013. Watch for updates. ~ JoAnn Although I have not been able to find any serious research papers on frontal lobe volume loss in sex addicts, there are more than enough professional opinions out there that claim that sex addicts exhibit the same changes in their brains as othe

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