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In 2004 I discovered my husband had a secret sexual life Read More

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We reject the idea that sex addiction is an actual disease,  Read More

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We Believe that you, the Partner or wife of a sex addict, are of the utmost  Read More

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Partners of sex addicts need someone who makes their needs the top priority Read More

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About 70% of partners have PTSD. The rest struggle with Read More

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Why? A Partner Speaks On Sex Addiction

Why does a man choose hookers over his family? Why didn’t we see this major flaw in our husbands? Why do we stay and have nervous breakdowns when we find out? Why do therapists push us towards acknowledging our part? Why are we triggered? Why can’t we just walk out the door and never look back?

Written by a Sister

Written by a Sister who wishes to remain anonymous... “The heart wants what it wants - or else it does not care.” No, that was not Woody Allen, (although he did quote an obscene version of it as a way to justify running off with his adopted daughter). It was Emily Dickinson, my favorite poet. Sh

If They Are Not Really Addicts Why Do We Call Them Sex Addicts?

The debate of whether Sex Addiction is really an addiction will not be settled soon, especially while expensive treatment centers continue to offer five figure 'cures'. I have stated for years that I do not believe that the compulsive sexual behaviors that these so called Sex Addicts engage in are n

Sex Addictions And Brain Changes–Which Came First?

Note: I wrote this in 2013. Watch for updates. ~ JoAnn Although I have not been able to find any serious research papers on frontal lobe volume loss in sex addicts, there are more than enough professional opinions out there that claim that sex addicts exhibit the same changes in their brains as othe

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