My Sex Addict Husband Got Another Woman Pregnant

Has anyone else had the unfortunate experience of their Sex Addict  getting another woman pregnant as a result of the addiction? I have and I wanted to talk about it. its just another facet of this nightmare that i am having trouble dealing with.

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  1. I am so sorry that this has happened. I have only had a few stories from partners who knew that their sex addict husband had a child by another woman but I have no details to share with you. I can relate a story about a young (underage) teenage boy who had a brief affair with an older woman. Eleven years later, when he was in a happy, long term relationship, the woman filed a claim for child support and filed for the eleven years prior. She won her case. This was a huge financial blow to the couple.

    What is the situation now with child support? Does he want to or does he have a relationship with the child? Is he still in contact with the mother?

    Now, more importantly, how do you feel about this? Have you discussed it with your husband? This is not something that can be swept under the rug. If you and your husband are staying together these issues will add a huge burden on the relationship. If you are separated or divorced it could affect your own alimony and/or child support payments.

    I wish you well dear Sister, please be kind to yourself. ~ JoAnn

  2. It happened to me. It broke my heart. Almost 2 years later he is now in a new relationship with another girl. I confronted him and all he would answer is “idk” and “I don’t feel happy”.
    I feel like I am a denial…but I don’t have the courage to break my kids heart…what do I do?

  3. I too have heard a personal story about a one night stand, and 10 years later the man (now married) was confronted with a paternity test brought by the state and litigation for back child support. And the woman was married when the child was born and had her husbands name on the birth certificate, but they went after the biological dad after the husband proved he wasn’t the biological father.