Una de las primeras reacciones de las mujeres que descubren que su marido o pareja es adicto al sexo es llevarlo a terapia para superar la adicción. Pero, ¿realmente funciona esa terapia?
Lo que dicen las parejas sobre la terapia para la adicción al sexo Leer más »
¿Por qué un hombre elige a las prostitutas antes que a su familia? ¿Por qué no vimos este gran defecto en nuestros maridos? ¿Por qué nos quedamos y sufrimos crisis nerviosas cuando lo descubrimos? ¿Por qué los terapeutas nos presionan para que reconozcamos nuestra responsabilidad? ¿Por qué nos sentimos tan afectadas? ¿Por qué no podemos simplemente irnos y no mirar atrás? ¿Por qué buscamos ayuda para ellos? ¿Por qué nos culpan? ¿Por qué nuestros amigos y familiares quieren que simplemente lo superemos? ¿Por qué este hombre que me vio dar a luz a nuestra hija/hijo abandonó el hospital y buscó una prostituta? Y la pregunta que gana es: "¿Por qué no se les puede ayudar?"
¿Por qué? Una pareja habla sobre la adicción al sexo. Leer más »
It is time to publicly rate your therapist. Somehow, some way the ‘do no harm’ philosophy has been lost on CSATs and therapists who counsel sex addicts and their partners. I hear story after story after story of blame shifting, name calling and outright deception and lying about the therapists undisclosed addictions. It is time
Valora a tu terapeuta Leer más »
This article, by Dr. Minwalla echoes what we, at the Sisterhood, have been saying for years. Dr. Omar Minwalla is the only professional who really seems to understand the complexity and scope of this thing we call ‘sex addiction’. This article is so important it should be posted on every Partner’s refrigerator and bathroom mirror.
La "sobriedad sexual" deja a las víctimas sin tratamiento por parte del Dr. Minwalla Leer más »
Written by a Sister who wishes to remain anonymous… “The heart wants what it wants – or else it does not care.” No, that was not Woody Allen, (although he did quote an obscene version of it as a way to justify running off with his adopted daughter). It was Emily Dickinson, my favorite poet.
Escrito por una hermana Leer más »
We have had some interesting discussions in the Sisterhood forums as to whether or not women can find happiness after discovering that they are in a relationship with a sex addict and if their marriage can be better than ever. The phrase that 12 steppers, therapists and Intensive Therapy programs pitch is the ‘Your marriage
¿Existe realmente un «mejor que nunca» después del descubrimiento? Leer más »
As you know from my previous post I am working on some audio tapes to help you relax and feel good about yourselves during this stressful time after Discovery and while trying to make those difficult decisions. Well, if you add the holidays to the mix and we are all basket cases. Here is a
Un regalo relajante para mis hermanas Leer más »
The news coverage of Ray Rice brutally beating his fiancee unconscious has brought back a flood of memories for me. I was a teen in the 60’s and fought long and hard, alongside other courageous women, to win basic rights. Our right to be treated at least as well as animals does not seem to apply
El abuso es abuso, es abuso. Leer más »
Siento el mayor respeto por el Dr. Omar Milwalla y su trabajo con Partners of Sex Addicts
El Dr. Minwalla y el trauma inducido por la adicción sexual (TAIS) Leer más »
Sisters, this website is very private. All of the Sisters depend upon and trust each other to keep our safe place safe. Yet, once in a while our safety is violated by a snooping husband. Even worse is when our safety is violated by a Sister herself. Our conversations, our private thoughts and emotions, are
Hermanas, por favor, protejan nuestra privacidad. Leer más »
Some Partners have said that you can always tell when a Sex Addict is lying–because their lips are moving. Unfortunately, that is true. Most Sex Addicts lie out of simple self preservation, preservation of the facade that they present. Let’s think about it. These guys have lied all of their lives. It is second nature.
La verdad sobre la mentira Leer más »
Honestly, I get so sick of reading and hearing over and over that men are genetically programmed to cheat. Those espousing this theory claim that men are programmed to spread their seed far and wide in order to ensure the survival of the species. Just like other male based thought processes, this one just doesn’t
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