当女性发现她们的丈夫或伴侣有性瘾时，她们的第一反应之一就是让他接受性瘾治疗。但是，这种治疗真的有效吗？
为什么一个男人会选择妓女而不是家人？为什么我们没能发现丈夫身上这个重大缺陷？为什么我们发现真相后还要留下，然后精神崩溃？为什么心理咨询师总是逼我们承认自己的责任？为什么我们会受到刺激？为什么我们不能一走了之，永不回头？为什么我们要为他们寻求帮助？为什么他们反而责怪我们？为什么我们的朋友和家人都希望我们能放下这件事？为什么这个亲眼看着我生下女儿/儿子的男人，会离开医院去找妓女？而最终的答案是“为什么他们无法被帮助？”
为什么？一位伴侣谈性瘾
It is time to publicly rate your therapist. Somehow, some way the ‘do no harm’ philosophy has been lost on CSATs and therapists who counsel sex addicts and their partners. I hear story after story after story of blame shifting, name calling and outright deception and lying about the therapists undisclosed addictions. It is time
给你的治疗师评分
This article, by Dr. Minwalla echoes what we, at the Sisterhood, have been saying for years. Dr. Omar Minwalla is the only professional who really seems to understand the complexity and scope of this thing we call ‘sex addiction’. This article is so important it should be posted on every Partner’s refrigerator and bathroom mirror.
明瓦拉医生称“性节制”令受害者得不到治疗
Written by a Sister who wishes to remain anonymous… “The heart wants what it wants – or else it does not care.” No, that was not Woody Allen, (although he did quote an obscene version of it as a way to justify running off with his adopted daughter). It was Emily Dickinson, my favorite poet.
由一位姐妹撰写
We have had some interesting discussions in the Sisterhood forums as to whether or not women can find happiness after discovering that they are in a relationship with a sex addict and if their marriage can be better than ever. The phrase that 12 steppers, therapists and Intensive Therapy programs pitch is the ‘Your marriage
发现号之后，真的会有“比以往任何时候都更好”吗？ 阅读更多 »
《发现》之后真的会有“比以往任何时候都更好”吗？
正如你从我之前的帖子中了解到的，我正在制作一些音频磁带，希望能帮助你在探索之旅结束后这段压力重重的时期放松身心，并在做出艰难决定时保持良好的状态。再加上假期，我们所有人都会感到焦头烂额。以下是一些音频：
送给姐妹们的放松礼物
The news coverage of Ray Rice brutally beating his fiancee unconscious has brought back a flood of memories for me. I was a teen in the 60’s and fought long and hard, alongside other courageous women, to win basic rights. Our right to be treated at least as well as animals does not seem to apply
虐待就是虐待，虐待就是虐待
姐妹们，这个网站非常私密。所有姐妹都彼此依赖、彼此信任，共同守护着我们的安全港湾。然而，偶尔也会有窥探隐私的丈夫侵犯我们的安全。更糟糕的是，有时侵犯我们姐妹自身的安全。我们的谈话、我们的私密想法和情感，都将受到保护。
姐妹们，请保护我们的隐私
Some Partners have said that you can always tell when a Sex Addict is lying–because their lips are moving. Unfortunately, that is true. Most Sex Addicts lie out of simple self preservation, preservation of the facade that they present. Let’s think about it. These guys have lied all of their lives. It is second nature.
关于说谎的真相
Honestly, I get so sick of reading and hearing over and over that men are genetically programmed to cheat. Those espousing this theory claim that men are programmed to spread their seed far and wide in order to ensure the survival of the species. Just like other male based thought processes, this one just doesn’t